Temper tantrums are a normal stage of emotional development in toddlerhood. But in some children, the extreme outbursts, bad behavior and intense emotions can become intolerable. If your child's terrible tantrums are putting you at your wits' end, take a couple of deep breaths first... here are four effective ways to deal with them.

1. Stand your ground

Understandably, it's tempting (and a lot easier!) to let your toddler have her way. But experts say that giving in will only backfire: As your child learns that she can win simply by throwing a tantrum, she will throw more of them. That's why it's important to teach your child that her wishes don't always come first. If she is prone to hurling herself down on the ground, kicking and screaming, just let her have her fit and ride it out.

2. Set limits

Toddlerhood isn't not too early for discipline. You can begin to set limits for your toddler by letting him know that certain actions are unacceptable. So the next time he starts throwing toys, take them away. If he refuses to call it quits at the playground, put your hand on his shoulder, look him directly in the eye and say in a firm voice, "It's time to go back now." Then pick him up and carry him back.